I can’t believe I’m using this movie as a source of optimism and hope, but, have you watched the movie "Dumb and Dumber" ? It’s been years for me, but I vividly remember the scene where Jim Carrey’s character asks what the odds of a girl like him and a guy like her are of getting together. She finally says, "One in a million." He takes this huge pregnant pause, those of us watching know he’s gonna be destroyed and completely deflated, but his body language changes, he gets a huge grin and (...)